The Building: the beginning, the middle, and the end.
I drove into the all-familiar driveway, now hidden among the apartment buildings surrounding it. The familiar church building with the high steeple, once standing proudly in a wide-open field, in the last decade stood amidst the modern apartment buildings, often hard to find unless you were specifically looking for it.
When
the building was first erected, there was hardly anything surrounding it but a
few homes and a pig farm next door. There were many a Sunday morning where you
would pull into the parking lot and exit from your car to the wafting
smell of pig poo and the sound of squealing.
But
now, as I pulled into the parking lot, grass reaching out high between the
cracks, all that remained is a makeshift fence and a “No Trespassing” sign. A
little, wooden shed, sticking out amidst the high grass the only building on
the property.
The
Iowa City Church of Christ was struck by lightning and burned to the ground on
what would have been my 34th anniversary.
Memories had flooded back when I looked online at the pictures of the remains. Barely a frame of the front, brick entryway remained. Anyone who wasn’t familiar with the church might not know, at first glance, the building that had at one time stuck out among the fields.
My
late husband, Ed, and I were young Christians when we first started attending
this church.
The
groundbreaking ceremony was my son's very first "outing" at one week
old.
This
“church” first began meeting in a daycare. Our first-year attending was in that
daycare, often with things like paper ghosts, snowflakes, or flowers hanging
from the ceiling tiles.
Ed
and I attended sometimes in our Army uniforms. We were in the National Guard,
and during drill weekends we had an hour to attend a religious service. A
couple of times we brought along a couple of other guardsmen with us.
The
church construction relied heavily on volunteer labor, and I remember many times
working on the building. I was “schooled” on how to use a hammer there, by the
minister, Merv Moberly.
Ed
and his dad hung shingles on the roof.
Ed
and I arranged for the church to borrow our National Guard’s medium sized, O.D.
(Olive Drab) green tent so we could do a “chow hall” for the volunteers. I made
spaghetti once and brought it to feed the workers from that tent.
I
remember doing Vacation Bible School (VBS) in the building before it was
complete. I remember decorating it for VBS, volunteering for VBS crafts or
registration at that building.
When
the building was first built, the small congregation couldn’t afford custodial
services, so I, along with other members of the church, took turns with other
families cleaning the church building. I knew every closet, cupboard, nook and
cranny.
Both
of my kids were baptized in that building.
I
was involved with Ladies events there, mothers’ day events, and fathers’ day
events. I attended funerals there and weddings. A decade ago, we held my
in-laws’ 50th anniversary there.
I
found out my grandmother passed while in that parking lot.
The
building had an apartment built in on the upper level. Merv and his wife lived
there while he was the pastor. Over the years, I think several people were able
to stay there when needed.
One
couple stayed there because their house flooded unexpectedly. The homeless
family was welcomed into the apartment and lived there for a while.
Ed
first started leading worship there, and I watched he and my kids play on the
worship team on that stage. The Elders at that church ordained Ed.
We had a memorial tree planted there after my husband passed away. Ironically, months prior to the fire, the tree had unfortunately been chopped down.
Now,
the building and the tree are gone. As much as that greatly saddens me, the
building and the tree only served as a gathering place and a reminder. The tree
was not my husband, and the building is not the church.
And
in hindsight, the Iowa City Church of Christ was always about the people, and
not the building. Before the building we served alongside those people setting
up for "church" in the preschool. We served alongside those people
working on the building, hammering, painting, cleaning. We served with many
people throughout a multitude of events that were held in that building.
Even
after we moved away, they remodeled the inside and it looked VERY different
than it originally did. But more important than the location of the stage and
the nursery was the many, many strong relationships we built at that church
building. Some of those people attended Ed's funeral in Chicago. There is no
fire or axe that can ever take those relationships away.
The
church is now meeting in a hotel downtown. Good for them continuing through
this adversity!
I
look forward to hearing about their future impact on downtown Iowa City.
Ed
used to say that churches should ask, "Would anyone in the community
notice if our church was no longer there?"
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